Questions to ask your partner to spark intimacy

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I want you to spark intimacy and deepen your connection with your partner. These questions i have gathered can do exactly that.

It ranges from light-hearted and fun to more personal and vulnerable, creating a safe space for sharing thoughts, feelings, and dreams.

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Getting to Know Their Inner World

  1. What’s something you dream about but rarely talk about?
  2. What’s one thing you feel deeply grateful for today?
  3. What’s a quality you really admire in yourself?
  4. If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be?
  5. How do you feel most supported by me?
  6. What is one insecurity you have that you wish you could let go of?
  7. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
  8. How do you show love and appreciation in a relationship?
  9. What’s a secret hope or ambition you have for the future?
  10. How would you describe your ideal day?

Relationship Reflections

  1. What do you think makes us work well together?
  2. What’s one of your favorite memories of us?
  3. How do you think we’ve grown as a couple?
  4. What’s something you love about being in a relationship with me?
  5. Is there a little habit I have that you secretly love?
  6. What’s something you’d love to try together that we haven’t yet?
  7. What’s one thing you miss about the early days of our relationship?
  8. If you could change one thing about our relationship, what would it be?
  9. What’s one way you’d like us to grow together as a couple?
  10. How do you feel when you see me after we’ve been apart?

Life and Future Together

  1. Where do you see us in five years?
  2. What do you look forward to most about our future together?
  3. How would you like to celebrate our next anniversary?
  4. If we could travel anywhere together, where would you choose?
  5. What’s something you want to accomplish together?
  6. What do you hope we’re like as a couple in 10 years?
  7. How would you like to keep romance alive as we grow older?
  8. What kind of traditions do you want to create as a couple?
  9. What role do you see me playing in your dreams for the future?
  10. How do you imagine us as parents (or pet parents)?

Vulnerability and Openness

  1. What’s one thing about me that took you by surprise?
  2. What’s one of your biggest fears about the future?
  3. What’s a lesson from a past relationship that you’ve brought into ours?
  4. Is there a dream you had that you let go of, and why?
  5. When was the last time you felt truly vulnerable with me?
  6. What’s one thing you’re afraid to tell people about yourself?
  7. How do you feel most loved by me?
  8. What’s something you wish people understood about you?
  9. If you could heal one thing from your past, what would it be?
  10. What’s something you’re still learning about yourself?

Fun and Lighthearted Questions

  1. What’s a hidden talent you have that I don’t know about?
  2. If we could make a “bucket list” together, what would you add to it?
  3. What was your most memorable childhood dream?
  4. What’s your favorite thing to do to unwind after a long day?
  5. If we were characters in a movie, what would our story be about?
  6. What’s your favorite way to spend time together when we have nothing else to do?
  7. If you could create a perfect weekend for us, what would we do?
  8. What’s something silly you love that we do together?
  9. What would you do if you could have a day where all your responsibilities disappeared?
  10. If you could choose any superpower for us to share, what would it be and why?

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