Hot Seat questions to ask anyone

Here, I’ve put together 120 hot seat questions that’ll make anyone squirm, laugh, or maybe even blush.

They’re divided into a few categories to suit different situations—because, let’s be honest, the questions you’d ask your best friend after a few glasses of wine are probably not the same ones you’d ask your significant other (unless you want to sleep on the couch).

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1. General Hot Seat Questions

These are the general-purpose, throw-anyone-in-the-spotlight kind of questions. Perfect for those times when you want to get to know someone better, or just make them sweat a little.

1. What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve ever done in public?
2. If you could switch lives with anyone for a day, who would it be and why?
3. What’s a secret talent that nobody knows about?
4. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told?
5. If you had to delete all but three apps from your smartphone, which ones would you keep?
6. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever worn?
7. If you could time travel, would you go to the past or the future, and why?
8. What’s your guilty pleasure TV show?

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1. What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever eaten?
2. If you could live in any fictional universe, where would it be?
3. What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?
4. If you could instantly become an expert at anything, what would it be?
5. What’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?
6. What’s the weirdest text you’ve ever sent?
7. If your life was a movie, what genre would it be?
8. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
9. If you could have dinner with any three people, dead or alive, who would they be?
10. What’s the last lie you told?
11. What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but have been too scared to?
12. If you could have any superpower, what would it be?

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2. Hot Seat Questions for Couples

Now, let’s get into the nitty-gritty for all you lovebirds out there. These questions are designed to deepen your connection—or at least find out who’s really stealing all the blankets at night.

1. What was your first impression of me when we met?
2. What’s something you love about me that you’ve never told me before?
3. If we could move anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?
4. What’s the best date we’ve ever had?
5. What’s the one thing you want us to do more often together?
6. If we could relive one day from our relationship, which day would it be?

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1. What’s something I do that makes you feel loved?
2. What’s one thing that you’ve always wanted to ask me, but haven’t?
3. What’s your biggest fear for our relationship?
4. If you could describe our relationship in one word, what would it be?
5. What’s your favorite memory of us?
6. What’s one thing you would change about our relationship if you could?
7. If we had an unlimited budget for our wedding, what would you want to include?
8. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for someone?
9. What’s your favorite thing about our relationship?
10. What do you think is the key to a successful relationship?

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1. If you could spend a week anywhere with me, where would it be?
2. What’s one thing that makes you feel closer to me?
3. What’s the funniest thing that’s ever happened to us?
4. How do you see our future together?

3. Hot Seat Questions for Friends Spicy

Now, this is where things start to heat up. These spicy questions for friends are not for the faint-hearted, but they’re guaranteed to turn any hangout into a memorable experience. Proceed with caution—these might just reveal more than you bargained for.

1. Have you ever had a crush on someone in this room?
2. What’s the most scandalous thing you’ve ever done?

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1. Who was your first kiss and how was it?
2. What’s your biggest turn-on?
3. If you had to date someone in this room, who would it be?
4. What’s your most embarrassing moment in the bedroom?
5. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
6. What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done under the influence?
7. What’s the most risqué photo you’ve ever taken?
8. Who’s the most inappropriate person you’ve ever had a crush on?
9. What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told a partner?
10. Have you ever been caught doing something you shouldn’t have been doing?
11. What’s the most awkward experience you’ve ever had with a crush?
12. If you could only be intimate with one person for the rest of your life, who would it be?
13. Have you ever had a secret relationship?
14. What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done at a party?
15. Who in this room would you not want to be stuck on a deserted island with, and why?
16. What’s your biggest regret in a past relationship?
17. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
18. What’s the craziest place you’ve ever done it?

4. Hot Seat Questions Spicy

If you’re really looking to take things up a notch, these spicy hot seat questions will do the trick. Fair warning: these might make your friends squirm or laugh nervously, but hey, isn’t that the point?

1. What’s your wildest fantasy?
2. Have you ever sent nudes? If so, to whom?
3. What’s your go-to move to impress someone you’re into?
4. What’s the most daring thing you’ve ever done in the bedroom?
5. Have you ever had a friends-with-benefits situation?
6. What’s the most scandalous thing you’ve ever done at work?
7. Have you ever hooked up with a friend’s partner?
8. What’s the dirtiest text you’ve ever sent or received?
9. What’s your number one deal-breaker in the bedroom?
10. Have you ever been in an open relationship?
11. What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during intimacy?
12. What’s the most unusual place you’ve ever hooked up?
13. What’s your biggest kink?
14. Have you ever role-played in the bedroom?
15. What’s the most shocking thing you’ve ever done to get someone’s attention?
16. What’s the most you’ve ever spent on a night out?
17. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?
18. Have you ever had a fling with a stranger?
19. What’s the most ridiculous pickup line someone’s ever used on you?
20. What’s your guilty pleasure when it comes to intimacy?

5. Hot Seat Questions for Couples Spicy

Here’s where you can get to the heart (and maybe some other parts) of your relationship. These spicy questions for couples are designed to test the boundaries of your relationship in a fun and cheeky way.

1. What’s your favorite part of my body?
2. What’s the sexiest thing I’ve ever done for you?
3. What’s one thing you want to try in the bedroom that we haven’t yet?
4. Have you ever fantasized about someone else while we were together?
5. What’s your favorite position?
6. What’s something naughty you’d like us to do together?
7. What’s the most romantic thing we’ve ever done?
8. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever wanted to try with me?
9. If you could have me wear anything in the bedroom, what would it be?
10. What’s the most adventurous thing we’ve done in the bedroom?
11. What’s your favorite time of day to be intimate?
12. What’s one thing I do that drives you wild?
13. If we could have a fantasy weekend anywhere, where would it be?
14. What’s the most romantic surprise you’ve ever planned for me?
15. What’s the most turned on you’ve ever been?
16. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do to me?
17. What’s your favorite memory of us being intimate?
18. What’s something you’d like us to do more often?
19. What’s the most daring place you’d want to hook up?
20. What’s your secret turn-on that you haven’t told me about?

6. Hot Seat Questions for Friends

And finally, to wrap things up, let’s take it back to the friends’ zone. These hot seat questions for friends will help you learn things you never knew about each other—and maybe even some things you didn’t want to know!

1. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done for attention?
2. Who in this room do you trust the least, and why?
3. What’s the worst rumor you’ve ever heard about yourself?
4. If you could trade lives with anyone in this room, who would it be
5. and why?
6. What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done to a friend?
7. If you had to eat only one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
8. What’s the weirdest habit you have?
9. If you had to marry one person in this room, who would it be?
10. What’s the most trouble you’ve ever gotten into?
11. Have you ever lied to get out of hanging out with someone? Who?
12. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve searched for online?
13. What’s the biggest secret you’ve kept from your parents?
14. What’s the strangest dream you’ve ever had?
15. If you could swap lives with any celebrity, who would it be and why?
16. What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?
17. Have you ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling?
18. If you could only listen to one song for the rest of your life, what would it be?
19. What’s the worst gift you’ve ever received?
20. If you had to confess one secret to your parents right now, what would it be?
21. What’s the weirdest nickname you’ve ever had?