10 surprising hot seat questions to ask your partner tonight

Having a partner is very nice, but the conversations make them more incredible.

Sure, it’s wonderful to share a love for the same shows, bond over favorite foods, and joke about inside references. But if you want to ignite a deeper connection, a round of “hot seat” questions can be the ultimate game-changer

Fun and Playful Questions

1. If you could switch lives with any fictional character, who would it be?
2. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten and secretly loved?
3. What’s a superstition you’ve believed in since childhood?
4. If you had to come up with a catchphrase, what would it be?
5. What’s the funniest thing you’ve done to impress someone?
6. If you could invent a holiday, what would it celebrate, and how would people celebrate it?
7. What conspiracy theory do you secretly wish were true?
8. What’s a guilty pleasure you’ll never admit to anyone else?
9. If you had to wear one outfit for the rest of your life, what would it be?
10. If you were invisible for a day, what would you do?

Deep and Reflective Questions

11. What’s something you believe that most people don’t?
12. If you could relive one day from your past, which would you choose?
13. What life event changed you the most?
14. How do you think people remember you when you’re not around?
15. What’s one thing about yourself you’re proud of but rarely talk about?
16. If you could apologize to one person from your past, who would it be and why?
17. What’s a goal you secretly have for yourself?
18. What’s a moment you’ll remember for the rest of your life?
19. If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be?
20. What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever made?

Relationship Insight Questions

21. What was your first impression of me, really?
22. What’s the little thing I do that makes you feel most loved?
23. If we could travel back in time to our first date, what would you do differently?
24. What’s one way you think our relationship has changed you?
25. What do you think is the most important thing for a successful relationship?
26. What’s a “rule” in relationships that you actually don’t like?
27. If you could read my mind for a day, would you?
28. What’s something you’ve always wanted to try with me but were too shy to ask?
29. What song or artist best describes our relationship?
30. How do you think our relationship will look in 10 years?

Lighthearted “What If” Questions

31. If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
32. If you were a superhero, what would be your superpower?
33. What would you do if you won the lottery tomorrow?
34. If we could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose?
35. If you had a pet dragon, what would you name it?
36. What would you do if you were a ghost for a day?
37. If we could swap bodies for a day, what would you do as me?
38. If you had to relive the same day over and over, which day would you choose?
39. If you could instantly change careers, what would you choose?
40. What would you do if you woke up in a stranger’s body?

Past and Future Fantasy Questions

41. What’s a favorite childhood memory you haven’t shared with me?
42. If you could witness any historical event, what would it be?
43. If you could give your teenage self one piece of advice, what would it be?
44. If you could peek 20 years into the future, would you?
45. What’s one future goal you’ve never told anyone about?
46. If we had to start a business together, what would it be?
47. Where do you think you’ll be in five years?
48. What was your dream job as a kid, and would you still want to do it?
49. If you could meet any one of your ancestors, who would it be?
50. What do you hope people will say about you at your 80th birthday?

Open-Ended “Favorite” Questions

51. What’s your favorite random fact that you know?
52. Who is your favorite person to spend time with other than me?
53. What’s your favorite memory of us?
54. What’s your favorite thing to do on a lazy weekend?
55. What’s your favorite way to unwind after a stressful day?
56. What’s your favorite compliment to receive?
57. What’s your favorite city or place you’ve visited?
58. What’s your favorite smell?
59. What’s your favorite thing about our relationship?
60. Who is your favorite celebrity and why?

Dream and Fantasy-Based Questions

61. If you could live in any time period, which would you choose?
62. If you had to live on a deserted island, what three things would you bring?
63. If you could bring one fictional world to life, which would it be?
64. If you could teleport anywhere right now, where would you go?
65. If you could be best friends with any celebrity, who would you pick?
66. If you could magically solve one world problem, what would it be?
67. If you had to write a book, what would it be about?
68. If you could know one secret about the universe, what would it be?
69. If you could choose your dreams each night, what would you dream about?
70. If you could have dinner with any three people, living or dead, who would they be?

Silly and Spontaneous Questions

71. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever Googled?
72. If you could change your name to anything, what would it be?
73. What’s a lie you’ve told that you never got caught for?
74. If you had to live as an animal for a day, which one would you pick?
75. What’s a talent you wish you had?
76. If you were a vegetable, what would you be?
77. What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but never dared to?
78. What’s the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
79. What would you do if you found out I was a secret agent?
80. What’s something completely useless that you’re really good at?

Secretive and Personal Questions

81. What’s a secret fear you’ve never told anyone?
82. If you could change one thing about your past, what would it be?
83. What’s the one thing you can’t live without?
84. What’s a habit you have that no one knows about?
85. What’s a topic you’re always curious to learn more about?
86. If you had to delete all but three apps on your phone, which ones would you keep?
87. What’s something you pretend to like but secretly don’t?
88. What’s the last thing you cried about?
89. If you could erase one memory from your life, what would it be?
90. What’s a dream you’ve had that felt incredibly real?

Love and Relationship-Focused Questions

91. What’s one thing I do that you think I don’t notice?
92. What’s one quality in me that you admire?
93. If we could go on a road trip anywhere, where would we go?
94. What’s something you think we should try together that we haven’t yet?
95. If you could only give me one piece of advice, what would it be?
96. What’s a funny or cute thing about me that you secretly love?
97. What’s one habit you’ve picked up from me?
98. What’s one thing you never get tired of doing together?
99. If we could live a completely different life, what would it look like?
100. If you could describe our relationship in one word, what would it be?